My Everest climb really began years ago, when I was eighteen. An Indian expedition came through Darjeeling en route to the mountain, and I asked my father to help enlist me on the team. He told me I was too young, I wasn’t ready. That was my first obstacle, and the path to finding those footsteps took me through college in America, to the tops of smaller peaks, by way of my father’s death and then my mother’s death. Each of these trials prepared me, I learned, for the challenges that confronted me on Everest.
My father showed me the path to the summit of Mt. Everest [Chomolungma], and I followed in his footsteps. But he also knew that I would have to find my own way, that I would have to climb the mountain myself. Only when I reached the summit did I fully understand this, and I understood him, too, in a way I had not before. Indeed, as I gazed across Nepal’s fertile valleys and Tibet’s wind-swept plateau, I felt my father there behind me, off to the side where a patch of rocks meets the snow, just below the summit. He told me he was pleased that I had climbed Everest and that he knew I would be the son to do so. Later, my uncle informed me that this wish was exactly what Tenzing had shared with him, in confidence, years before.
“You can’t see the entire world from the top of Everest”, my father had told me after his successful 1953 climb. “The view from there only reminds you how much more of the world there is to see and learn from.” Indeed, what I learned most from both my father and the mountain was respect. They both demanded it, and when I see climbers flouting that respect, displaying arrogance in the lap of their great teacher, I feel they are putting themselves at great risk.
“You can’t see the entire world from the top of Everest”, my father had told me after his successful 1953 climb. “The view from there only reminds you how much more of the world there is to see and learn from.”